Dear Abby

Just what is it with people who refuse to take no for an answer? Why do they keep hanging on when it's made perfectly clear to them that they are not wanted? If I talk to someone with a straight face just once, does it mean I have promised eternal friendship?

No. Those are not just random questions. There's this person who's calling me all hours of the day and night and I've told him hundreds of times that I am not interested in talking to him. I've even ignored him. I've been abusive (verbally, in case it isn't clear). I've told him very very politely. I've cut off the phone when I see his number on the phone. Then I've shut off the phone completely.

When I am horribly rude to him, he says he is taking it as a challenge. What the heck? He says he will win me over. I wish I could... (insert something at the peak of violent behaviour here). I do not want to be won over dammit! HOW do I make that clear? I swear I am not playing hard to get. I'd puke if someone even suggested that. So please don't. It will not be funny.

To the people who think that I am an egoistic bitch, ohh, get a life, morons. I'm sick and tired of this shit.
Now please, advice time. Where am I going wrong? What am I supposed to do?

I'm simply going nuts. I mean, I am having daydreams about hitting this person repeatedly on the head with something heavy. Fatal hitting. Like in the Tom and Jerry cartoons. That isn't very good for my health, is it? More of this and it might really effect my mental equilibrium. And it's getting into other parts of my life. All this aggression isn't good.

So, well, Help.

Just realised how my posts seem to have the word 'help' in them lately. Perhaps I really need it, huh?

Ohh, and this isn't about anyone on FH. I can think of someone who will read this and instantly think 'ME' - in caps, but no, it isn't anyone who frequents this place. Wonder if that stupid sicko is even computer literate. Grumble, grumble.